someone or not. It's what I call the "Daddy issue". Every bad
relationship or F'ed up women I have ever met in my life (with the
exception of one or two) had a bad relationship with their father.
Because of that, I was viewed as the "father" figure and submitted to
all the anger, frustration, disappointment, etc. that came along with
it. Anyone I dated that had a wonderful relationship with their father,
I hardly ever had trouble with.
The same goes for men and their mothers. If the man gets along well with
his mother, chances are he will treat his spouse just the same. If he
gets along bad with his monther...well you know.
-----Original Message-----
From: Matthew Small [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 4:29 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: She said yes
Absolutely, you're right - it's the baggage part that makes
relationships hard. Every girl I've dated before her had at least one
really bad long term relationship and now wants to be "independant". I
got this one fresh - she'd never been in a long term relationship
before.
- Matt Small
----- Original Message -----
From: Dan Phillips (CFXHosting.com)
To: CF-Community
Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:39 PM
Subject: RE: She said yes
My personally, I could never get along with women in their early 20's.
Too much baggage/stuff to deal with. But thats just me (and the people
I
dated as well). I usually go for women a bit older. Right now I'm 29
and
my girlfriend is 33
All in all though, if you get along, age is really not an issue IMHO.
Just have to make sure you are on the same page in life, or at least
reading the same book.
-----Original Message-----
From: Matthew Small [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:41 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: She said yes
Um, like she's not in my age range? :-) I think that the older a man
is
(reasonably) the more secure a relationship is. Women mature faster,
and it also takes a measure of experience over that of the woman to
make
it work. Of course, her being a young hottie doesn hurt at all. :-)
- Matt Small
----- Original Message -----
From: Ben Doom
To: CF-Community
Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:22 PM
Subject: Re: She said yes
Fine. Steal all the girls in my age range. See if I care.
<cfgrumble />
j/k
One of the happiest couples I know are even further apart -- he's
35/6
and she's 23.
--benD
Matthew Small wrote:
> I'm 31 and she's 23.
>
> Thanks everyone :-D
>
> - Matt Small
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: brob
> To: CF-Community
> Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:06 PM
> Subject: Re: She said yes
>
> Hey matt how old are you and your gf, just wonderin
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Matthew Small
> To: CF-Community
> Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 1:00 PM
> Subject: She said yes
>
> Hi everyone,
> Well, I did it, I proposed to the girlfriend, and she said
yes.
> We went to Niagra Falls and that where I proposed, on Table Rock
> Point. We were there at the same time that the guy jumped in,
although
> we didn't realize what the fire trucks and the ambulances were for
at
> the time.
> I ended up giving her the ring that Brian Ledwith had
asked
me
> to look at, and boy, it is a stunning art deco-style ring
featuring
a
> Sapphire main stone with diamonds surrounding it. She's thrilled
with
> it, I knew she would be. View the ring at
> http://www.showstopperonline.com/ring
> The date is November 6, 2004.
>
> - Matt Small
>
> P.S. Sorry to hear about your split Tim.
>
>
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