----- Original Message -----
From: "cfhelp" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 1:44 PM
Subject: RE: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> They set a date for a C-section.
>
> Neil Alexander Lee Eidson will be here January 5th at 8am
>
> Rick
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Deanna Schneider [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 11:59 AM
> To: CF-Community
> Subject: Re: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
>
> I got this before the first one. But, my mom is actually going the
opposite
> way now. Now, she's afraid for me to have another one (due to some
> complications with the first). So, I'm totally off the parental hook for
> "so, when are you going to have baby #2?" Woo hoo!
>
> -d
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Ben Densmore" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 11:39 AM
> Subject: RE: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
>
> > My mother-in-law does this to everyone too. She feels that just because
> > you are married that you have to have kids. I have 3 boys that I love
> > dearly but I don't assume people will just have kids. I actually
> > encourage not having kids.
> >
> >
> >
> > Ben
> >
> >
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Dan Phillips [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 12:39 PM
> > To: CF-Community
> > Subject: RE: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> >
> >
> >
> > While on this subject, there is another aspect I just thought of. I have
> > some friends that are newly married and all anyone asks them is "so when
> > are you having kids?" Amy and I are starting to get the same questions.
> > I find it a bit...rude maybe?...that people assume a wedded couple will
> > have kids. Am I the only one?
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Erika L Walker-Arnold [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 12:24 PM
> > To: CF-Community
> > Subject: RE: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> >
> > Thank you for the support guys, Deanna! :D Means a lot.
> >
> > I totally respect other people's wishes and wants to have children, and
> > I admire them for it because it's a huge commitment. A HUGE
> > responsibility, and one I just can't be a part of.
> >
> > Seriously, some of my hostility towards a comment like "you don't know
> > what you are missing" ... comes from hearing it a gazillion times.
> >
> > Why is it other people seem to know what you should do with your life?
> > Why is it that people have to jump on the wagon and try and convince you
> > that you are wrong? Why do people not realize that what works for them
> > might not work for others?
> >
> > Yeah yeah yeah, don't preach to me because everyone is human and it's an
> > instinctive reaction to spread the wealth and joy they feel. Bah humbug.
> >
> > We love our pets and we are enjoying them to the hilt. We get a
> > tremendous amount of joy from having them around. I don't know what we
> > would do without them. But I'm not busting on everyone I know who
> > doesn't have pets and saying "You don't know what you're missing" ....
> >
> > Happy Holidays! :D
> >
> > Cheers,
> > Erika
> > --------------------------------------------------
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Deanna Schneider [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2003 11:52 AM
> > To: CF-Community
> > Subject: Re: Having kids (was RE: Exploring Frugality)
> >
> > So, good for the two of you for making a decision that's right for you.
> > _____
> >
> > _____
> >
> >
> >
> _____
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