agree with everything you said about marriage being a two way street, etc.
I personally believe that men and women who plan to co-exist need to agree
on rules about what is and is not acceptable to purchase and/or do in
general in order to co-exist efficiently. I wouldn't be any happier about
my wife spending 3 grand on a fur without consulting me first than she'd be
about me buying a server for 3 grand without consulting her first (she'd
give me a lot more hell though).
~Simon
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-----Original Message-----
From: Erika L Walker-Arnold [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: 29 December 2003 15:47
To: CF-Community
Subject: RE: I think I'm in trouble
Before this disintegrates into a "women are bad" thread ... :D
Let me reiterate that we are not all "dumb, uncool, unwise, whiny, and
worried about doilies." :D :P :D
Maybe Matt and his future wife to be had discussed something about a
vehicle.
Maybe she should join this list and give her 2 cents worth so we can
hear her side?
Marriage is a two way street and both parties should be communicating at
all times no matter what the topic.
Methinks Matt's fiance was a little miffed that he went and made a major
purchase without consulting her, someone who will also likely be
bringing in money to the family and helping pay for said new car. (I
don't know, I'm just being theoretical)
If she ALREADY has a mustang, why do they need two?
If they are going to have kids right away ... then how are two mustangs
practical?
NONE of us know what really goes on in Matt's life, so let's not dis the
woman before we have all the facts OK? :P
Phil can buy all the cool toys he wants and he knows it, and he has.
Right now though, we are saving to buy our house ... so no, he can't go
out and buy the next Super Duper Hellacious Double Boogey Jacked Up and
on Turbo Night Rider video game. I might get a little miffed since I'm
doing without my Holy Jeebus That's Freaking Smoking and Blows the Head
Off the Next Door Neighbor's Cat Quadruple Processing Computer. :P
Cheers,
Erika
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-----Original Message-----
From: Simon Horwith [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, December 29, 2003 10:33 AM
To: CF-Community
Subject: RE: I think I'm in trouble
Mike,
You're either single or have the most tolerant wife on the planet!
"perhaps the marriage is just not meant to be"... you're killing me,
Man.
~Simon
-----Original Message-----
From: Haggerty, Mike [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: 29 December 2003 15:23
To: CF-Community
Subject: RE: I think I'm in trouble
If your wife can't deal with you having a cool ride, which is a
part of your identify, perhaps the marriage is just not meant to be.
Imagine what life will be like in 20 years when she becomes hysterical
over a bunch of doylies over or something - you do not want that. It's
going to be lemonade and cucumber sandwiches instead of beer and
chicken
wings, and that ain't right. Put your foot down and keep your dignity.
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