your heart while you hear about the stuff you really don't want to hear
about.
Bah give it a little time if she doesnt come around and it hurts dump
her like a cold sack of potatoes.
Had something like that happen to me recently before i found nicole my
current GF. Dated this guy saw her every couple nights and even loaned
her a grand or so and then boom she takes off and won't answer her phone
and changes her phone # LOL. The only thing that pisses me off about
that is i think i deserved an explanation but oh well.
Life sucks get a helmet :>
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-----Original Message-----
From: dana tierney [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, January 26, 2004 5:41 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re:dating/relationship question... (LONG)
that could be it too. Still worth being her friend if you really like
her.
Dana
> She decided she wants an asshole instead of a guy who treats her like
> a princess. Give her a few years and a few assholes, and perhaps she
> will grow up.
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Jacob
> To: CF-Community
> Sent: Monday, January 26, 2004 2:20 PM
> Subject: dating/relationship question... (LONG)
>
>
> When she says that she wants to '"be friends," does that mean that
> there is
> no more hope? Here is what happened.
>
> I was going out with the wonderful lady for about a month and a half.
> After
> each date, we could tell that we were into each other. Except for the
> first
> date, every date ending in a long kisses good bye. When we were
> together, I
> could tell she was enjoying herself. During the month and a half, she
> went
> away on vacation for a week and called me back the day she came home.
> So,
> it looked like she was interested.
>
> Last weekend, we had three dates back, to back, to back. A cooked her
>
> dinner at home and we watched DVDs, second was a fire at the beach,
> and the
> third was a comedy show and a relaxing evening in a hot tub. But,
> after
> that last date, there was no long kissing session after the date, just
> a
> peck on the lips. When I called her two days later I asked her out to
>
> dinner on Thursday, and said "call me later and if I fell like it,
> maybe."
> With that and the peck on the lips, I though something was wrong.
Well,
> I
> called her Thursday and asked her out and she said yes. She also said
> that
> she had something to tell me.
>
> After dinner, she told me that she spent the last few days thinking
> about
> us and looking deep inside of her to find the chemistry, but there was
> none
> there. She wanted to find it. She told me that I was a very nice guy,
> great
> looking, and that nobody has ever treated her like a princess before,
> which
> I did. She almost started to cry and asked me to give her a call so we
> can
> hang out again, because she would love that. And she then said that
> she
> wanted to "Be Friends." She said that she is still a wild person and
> likes
> to be a little immature.
>
> I know it was only a month and a half, but I really, really liked her.
> I
> could tell that the chemistry was there, but it seemed like it died
> off. It
> was weird that at first she was into me, then not longer. I was
> beginning
> to think that I may have been too romantic and did too much, too soon
>
.
> Cooking dinner at her place, fires, strawberries with whip cream, hot
> tub
> with music and candles, etc. (or another guy).
>
> So, did I move too fast? I think so. She already knows what I can do
> for
> her, romantically and affectionately, maybe I just needed to go slower
> and
> have more fun times first.
>
> I want to give it time. Just avoid contact with her for now and she
> what
> happens. See is she calls or not. Do not want to make it sound like I
> am
> desperate. I would like to be friends, on my level, and maybe I can
> re-create the spark by doing something that she likes to do for fun.
> It
> sounds like we wanted more fun and wild times. Give it a month and
> hopefully we end up going out on another "date", having fun, and I can
>
> maybe re-light that spark. After 8 years of looking and bad
> experiences
> with exs, though she was the one.
>
> On the other hand, I am not going to sit here and wait. Have to going
>
> fishing again...
>
> Yes.. for the first time, I thought I was in love... SUCKS!
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