You made me fall all peaceful again - wise words.
Paul Burgess
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> From: Jennifer [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> Sent: Thursday, April 20, 2000 9:07 PM
> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Subject: Everybody chill
>
>
> One of the things that's really cool about this list is that
> we're all here
> to help each other learn to use ColdFusion more effectively. I want
> everyone to think about this for a minute and remember it for a while.
> Everyone has things that they don't understand or that they could
> learn to
> use better, probably even Ben Forta. :) We are here to help each
> other, not
> ridicule each other. When people ask questions and we ridicule them we
> teach them that asking for help is a bad idea. Of course, it
> would probably
> help if people asked like this: "I just don't understand how this is used
> differently than this" or "I'm not clear on the concept of this, could
> someone please explain it?" or even "Man, I am totally lost. I
> need to get
> this thing done and I can't figure out how to do it;" Instead of: "this
> thing is obviously broken" or "this is useless" or "why doesn't
> allaire get
> off their lazy butts and fix my problem." These kinds of questions are
> really not helpful and I am trying to ignore them. I really am, but it's
> difficult.
>
> Also, I understand that personal agendas are hard to avoid, but
> it would be
> really nice if we could avoid them.
>
> So basically, we need to just calm down a little bit and think
> about how we
> say the things we say, ok? Otherwise, this helpful forum could degenerate
> into something that none of us really want to see.
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