LOL, you give me such a funny mental picutre, of talking with your neighbour and wife!! you are right all yelling isn't bad, but your yelling isn't the yelling I refer to as yelling (Make sense!?) I think more for my purposes is the yelling in anger. The blow up you can't take back, and the way it sticks with you.
I remeber when I was a kid we had a wicked mean principle, who used to yell at us constantly. His whole face turned bright red, and I often though he would blow a blood vessel in his head or something! He yelled at me almost every day, and then one day he struck me. I was horrified. That is the kind of yelling I think is not necessary, the other stuff is a choice thing. DD. > > > > Sometimes you have > > to yell to get your point heard above all the noise. > > > > > > > > <snip> > > > > ======================================================== > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] (mailto:Texas2SF@) writes: > > > > One of the best things about having Tico in our family, is that he > moderates > > my anger and/or yelling. What is best about him, he shows me that, > My anger > > isn't about communication, my yelling is about not being connected > to my > > source. It's fear, or at least that's how I see it. > > > > Tico just can't tolerate yelling, and I just bet my blood pressure has > > lowered just having him here. Indeed, He really is a great BIG (10 > pound) gift of > > God, and an example of love. > > > > This has been a long slow process for me, I was raised thinking that > yelling > > and anger were badges of courage. So, I have had to retrain myself, > slowly, > > step by step, to see that yelling isn't getting my voice heard, it's > abuse. > > I'm not attempting to throw stones, I'm just being honest about my > perception. > > > > Therefore, I ask our fellow group members, please don't yell in CAPS, > > online, but especially in this group. You might scare my > chihuahua/miniature > > pinscher, LOL. > > > > If you really have something to say, then make it compelling to read. > > > > Oh, Did I ever tell you, Tico had a girlfriend named Nina who lived > next > > door, He human companion and she moved on to LA, poor Tico! He was > so "in > > love"...... > > > > > > Bill (SFO) San Francisco CA > > > > I'm still learning different ways of turning my own anger into > positive > > action! > > > > Tico's dogster profile: > > _http://www.dogster.com/pet_page.php?j=t&i=235178_ > > (http://www.dogster.com/pet_page.php?j=t&i=235178) > > > " Lets talk about our wonderful little friends! Join today! " Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Chihuahuas/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
