Had alcohol been included, everyone would have gone home asap. We don't allow 
alcohol in our home. But even at 16, Stephen is not allowed to be home 
alone.....he is not even allowed in the house if we are outside....or to go 
down stairs while I am upstairs and vice versa.....
Marsha

Do not tell God how big your storm is. Tell the storm how big your God is.
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: arlene weaver 
  To: [email protected] 
  Sent: Thursday, October 04, 2007 8:45 AM
  Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] its over...I'm semi-back


  sounds like a day you will never forget.  may years down the road you will be 
able to laugh at some things.   i remember the first time i left my son home 
alone for a few hours, id told  hime he could have a friend over. when  i got 
home they were pasted out drunk on the floor.  they could have died the 
dummies.  16 yaers later i can smile about it.   arlene

  marsha Taylor <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: 

    Well, the party is over and I am back but will still be a bit behind on 
emails. First, let me welcome any new members to any of the groups. I am Marsha 
in KY, sahm to 14 yo dd and now 16 yo ds as well as a zoo of Chihuahuas and 
other pets. Welcome to the groups.....whichever ones you are reading this on :-)

    Stephen had 4 boys over, but only three spent the night, one had to leave 
after a few hours. I will NEVER undertake something like this with him again!! 
First, he knew all about it....guess I should have known I couldn't keep it a 
secret. Two of the boys were almost as bad as he is at trying to keep any 
semblance of order with. First, they broke the banisters off my mom's porch, 
they kept turning on the riding mower, they dragged ladders all over the yard 
and climbed on everything, two of them snuck up in the middle of the night and 
slept on the roof of the cabin...which isn't complete, so a thousand wonders it 
didn't fall through. They nearly turned the outhouse over with Stephen inside 
sitting on the potty! ( we built an outhouse so they would not be running in 
and out of the house all the time.) 

    We looked through the window of the cabin and two of them were watching a 
porno DVD and I'll leave it to your imagination what they were doing! We 
confiscated the DVD of course!

    One of them spent the night pouting and CRYING(!) and wouldn't come in for 
cake and ice cream because my 14 year old daughter wouldn't go out with him!! 
He used some choice words on her because she told him no. So I myself had a 
talk with him and told him my daughter is 14 and even if she did like him it 
wasn't gonna be happening and he needed to get his act together and not be 
harassing her again.

    Another one had to be home (a half hour away) by 9:30 this am, but didn't 
think to tell us we had to take him, until it was almost 9 and no one had yet 
eaten or anything!

    The cake turned out beautiful! I had wanted to do a mustang cake, but the 
stores couldn't because of copy right issues, so I had them do a road and at 
each end of the road draw the lines that are behind the mustang horse. I then 
bought a die cast mustang and put it on the road, and went to the junk yard and 
got two horses off a mustang and placed them on the lines.....turned out so 
great....but one of the boys said it was so gross because the horses came from 
the junk yard. I DID clean them good ect first...sighhhhh.

    Stephen liked his car and the two boys that weren't pouting liked it,...the 
other wouldn't look. Stephen ran his smart mouth...told mom he hated her and 
everything she stood for.....later pretended he had been joking. Just an all 
around smart elick. He liked his gifts, but didn't really show a lot of 
appreciation. IT had been hard for me to continue doing the stuff anyhow 
because he had told me a couple of days ago that everything that was bad in his 
life was me...that I was his problem and the cause of everything that is wrong. 
I will never undertake something like this again!

    Today was also my mom's birthday. She has worked so hard for Stephen's that 
she couldn't really relax and enjoy hers. My brother took her and his family 
out to eat......my family was not invited....the kids do so bad that in all 
honesty, no one wants to be around us. Then tonight we had to go to the funeral 
home and tomorrow to the funeral itself...so afterwards, we will have cake and 
ice cream and gifts for mom.

    Today is also my chi Dinah's birthday. I like to spend extra time with my 
chis on their b-day....but too much was going on. After all are in bed, I will 
spend some special one on one with her and give her her birthday treat (lamb 
lungs and a new toy)

    Right now, I just wanna crawl in a hole and cover my head........

    Marsha

    Do not tell God how big your storm is. Tell the storm how big your God is.





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