Honey forget what your ex said - he is a cheater and that says it all. Probably did not give you any attention because he was too busy with his other gal. He is just tying to justify his behavior by telling you your faults. I promise you - someday you will be like me and say thank God that he is not in my life anymore! I know that many marriages survive infidelity and become stronger and better but my ex had so many other issues besides his cheating that we would of never been compatible together. We got married way too young and had no idea what we were doing. He even cheated on me while I was giving birth to his son! I forgave his several times. Been there - Nancy
--- On Sat, 11/6/10, [email protected] <[email protected]> wrote: From: [email protected] <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence- OT / Amanda To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, November 6, 2010, 3:45 PM What did the vet say was the cause? Is it contagious? Gloria In a message dated 11/6/2010 11:33:09 A.M. Central Daylight Time, [email protected] writes: Im so sorry for dumping all of this on yall. I have two foster chis, Boo and Rufus. Last week Boo got very sick. Vomiting and diarhea for four days. No food, she couldnt even keep water down. 120 at the vet and round the clock care she is now better but the vet said she almost died. Now Rufus has the same thing. Hes slowly getting better though. I try so hard not to bother people. my ex said that was my problem, i was needy and clingy. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Sat, 11/6/10, Brea Hicks <[email protected]> wrote: From: Brea Hicks <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence- OT / Amanda To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> Date: Saturday, November 6, 2010, 12:08 PM I talk to sweetie all the time!!! -- Sent from my Palm Pre On Nov 5, 2010 11:05 PM, Kavi <[email protected]> wrote: Hi Amanda I thought I was the only one that carried on a conversation with my chi Ricky...LOL. I too talk to him all the time. When I take him outside, I have to carry him down the stairs. All the way I am talking to him... if its cold or warm, or what ever... my neighbors must think I am nuts! Our pets keep us sane, and they loves us no matter what we do, say or what we look like. I have days where I am feeling kinda out of it, but some good old love from Ricky... and it makes me smile and brings me back to life. I am sure this is what your babies do to you. all will be ok. Please dont leave this group. We all support each other in our down time & up times. You have friends here... write what ever is on your mind... it always will make you feel better to get things off your chest or out in the open. We are here for you and to listen and help. send pic too!! Shanna --- On Fri, 11/5/10, amanda christopher <[email protected]> wrote: From: amanda christopher <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence- OT To: [email protected] Date: Friday, November 5, 2010, 10:41 PM I mean Ive had to participate. My six chi babies are my life and Ive been trying to keep things normal for them. Luckily he wasnt very close to them so they are not too depressed. I know they miss him though and they search the house for him and his cat and foxhound, which he took with him. He always said those little ankle biters were all mine. So I bake dog biscuits and watch tv with them. I play games and give baths. I dress them up and I talk to them constantly. I tell them what Im making for dinner, where I have to go, when I will be back, what I need to do. I read aloud to them anything from Dr Seuss to Harry Potter. I knit scarves and quilt as we watch tv and I try to stay busy. They cant afford for me to break down. And I truly didnt mean to. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Sat, 11/6/10, Nancy Lucky <[email protected]> wrote: From: Nancy Lucky <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence- OT To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, November 6, 2010, 1:20 AM Honey, its okay you did not mean any harm. We do not want you to leave the group you need your friends now more than ever. My husband did the exact same thing to me 20 years ago and I can feel your pain. The worst thing that you can do is isolate from your friends. It was just an honest error and you just wanted to share how much one dog looked like the other. Please do not leave and forgive yourself - this is not a time that you should be beating yourself up. I think its amazing that you are even able to particpate with everything that happened to you. BIG Hugs Nancy and the girls --- On Fri, 11/5/10, amanda christopher <[email protected]> wrote: From: amanda christopher <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence- OT To: [email protected] Date: Friday, November 5, 2010, 10:03 PM Im sorry Deanna I've been trying to find some joy in life around me and I get careless. I never wanted to tell but Ive been slipping up and I truly apologize. After six years of marriage my husband left me two months ago and moved in with my "best friend". I try not to spill everything about my personal life. I truly apologize and I will stay silent until I manage to get past this rough spot in my life. I will send out my packages on the fifteenth and then take a hiatus for awhile. I never meant to spoil things for others. I guess I wasn't thinking. Please forgive me. And I hope that at some point in the future I will be welcomed back to the group. May all of you have a good thanksgiving and christmas season. May the new year bless you all. And may you all know love. Bless you all and again I am truly sorry. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day! --- On Sat, 11/6/10, Deanna Corey <[email protected]> wrote: From: Deanna Corey <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, November 6, 2010, 12:04 AM Amanda!!!! SHHHHH!!!!!!! No one was supposed to know yet LOL!!!!! Waggin' Tails in The Dog Park, Deanna and The Dog Park Pack: Nugget, Shuai-Li, Mouse, Myrtle, Mable, and Caleb and honorary non-dog members of The Dog Park: Stella-Macaw, Stanley-Amazon, Miles the cat www.joys4toys.com From: amanda christopher <[email protected]> To: [email protected] Sent: Fri, November 5, 2010 8:52:28 PM Subject: [Chihuahuas]Freaky Coincidence [1 Attachment] Was getting packages ready for the chi exchange. One of my partners is Miguel. I was trying to picture his coloring and saw a picture of him with Tia and Isi and I froze. OMG! He is a dead ringer for my mom's chi baby Fudge! I mean identical almost! I could have sworn that it WAS Fudge! Even my mom thought it was him at first and asked when I had took that picture and who were the other dogs. Talk about wierd! They say everyone has a twin. Guess that's true! Here's Fudge. Have A Beautiful Day, Each And Every Day!

