Deanna, 

I have the same problem with Monster and I've tried holding him on his back and 
it seemed to work some. But I don't think I hold him for long enough. Do you 
wait until they are completely still? Monster didn't ever completely become 
still. He was still trying to roll over and get up a little when I let him up. 

Thanks, 
Lorena
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From: Deanna Corey <[email protected]>
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Date: Wed, 24 Nov 2010 09:25:15 
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Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] My dog Jack......advice needed please

Hi Amanda,
congratulations on your new addition!!! How fun...a new Chi! What you explained 
to me sounds exactly like aggression...fear based...but aggression none the 
less. I am of the personal belief dogs do not understand a time out...their 
Mommies...when teaching them proper puppy behavior wouldn't send them to a 
corner or a bathroom. Dogs do not "reflect" on their actions and then decide to 
do better. We like to assign our "human" traits to our furbabies but it just 
isn't effective to do so. I even have my own doubts how well "time out" 
actually 
works for children LOL.

Aggression in any form is acting out...whether from fear or anger...and should 
be not tolerated ever. Simply teaching the dog the appropriate "re-action" when 
he feels fear or anger should be your goal. In my house...any form of 
aggression 
is met with an immediate resonse. I have too many dogs in my dog park and 
humans 
in my home to allow out of control actions towards humans or other animals. If 
one of my guys displayed what your sweet little Jack is doing, he would be 
swiftly put on his side and held until he relaxed and realized that "I" do not 
want that behavior...not acceptable...and that I am in charge of him...my voice 
would be stern, my hands would be firm but not rough. This would be repeated 
until he stopped showing signs of acting out innappropriatly. This should come 
from you...his mama...his pack leader...his boss. Chihuahuas usually want to be 
the boss...we call it "short mans disease" around here...trying to be 
tougher...more incontrol...more assertive than anyone else...because they think 
they "need" to. They need to learn that that is your position. AS far as your 
Mom...she should not speak softly or weakly to him...that just reinforces his 
fear of her...her weakness...her place beneath him. Have your mom simply ignore 
him...have her not give him the time of day!! She should go where she 
wants...sit and be where she wants and Jack should get out of her way...she 
needs to have assertiveness and purpose in her actions...and not give one flip 
to where Jack is or what Jack needs. He will come around...right now he sees 
her 
as weak and a target. Little Mister Jack simply needs to be put back in his 
place. LOL

Obviously this is just my opinion...and what works here in the dog park...but I 
hope you find the answers to what works for you. Your poor Mom! 

 
              Waggin' Tails in The Dog Park,
                                  Deanna 
                               
                                                            and
 The Dog Park Pack: 
Nugget, Shuai-Li, Mouse, Myrtle, Mable,Madison and Caleb
  and honorary non-dog members of The Dog Park: 
Stella-Macaw, Stanley-Amazon, Miles the cat
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From: "Dunwoody, Amanda" <[email protected]>
To: [email protected]
Sent: Wed, November 24, 2010 8:54:34 AM
Subject: [Chihuahuas] My dog Jack......advice needed please

  
Jack is a 3 year old Chihuahua that I adopted approximately 4 weeks ago from a 
local animal rescue. He and my other dog, Twiggy, also a rescued Chihuahua I 
adopted in September, have adapted to having me as their pack leader fairly 
well. Jack is still adjusting as he has not been in the house as long as 
Twiggy. 
I am familiar with the Chihuahua breed and know that they often pick one person 
to have as their "owner" and can get snippy with anyone else. This description 
fits Jack to a T. 


My mother lives with me in my home. When she approaches me and Jack is on my 
lap, he has snapped at her. He doesnt' react this way all of the time but he 
will rear back at her sometimes too. If Jack is in his crate and she approaches 
the crate, he growls at her. I have taken to removing Jack from the situation 
when he snaps at her as I am holding him. I place him in the bathroom for 
approximately 5 minutes as a "time out" and then bring him back into the living 
room. Do any of you have other suggestions? Should she be the one that removes 
him from the situation to show him that she has control of the situation? I am 
responsible for the training that goes on in the house. When Jack snaps at Mom 
she walks away from him telling me that she was just trying to be nice to him 
and he just won't let her be nice or even pet him. 


I have encouraged her to speak with him in a soft calming voice and tell him 
good boy when they are together in the same room so that he associates her with 
GOOD things. He will wait for her to put a treat down on the floor and wait for 
her to walk away and then he will eat it. This makes me feel as though he is 
fearful of her. Any suggestions on how to help this? 


I don't see this as aggression, I really feel that he's fearful of Mom and just 
doesn't know how to handle it. I don't want to coddle him and go awww it's OK 
Jack because I feel it's teaching him that it's OK for him to snap at mom or 
other guests who come to the home. Luckily, we don't have much company at this 
time and she is the only one that he's snapped at. I want to nip this in the 
bud 
before it becomes an even bigger issue. 


I appreciate any advice you might have on this issue.
 
 



      

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