My answers are below in another color Carolyn. Mare In Oklahoma -------Original Message------- From: Carolyn M. Date: 03/07/12 21:03:16 To: [email protected] Subject: [Chihuahuas] I'm putting Joe down on Monday. Need you... Hi friends, Well, I've put it off for two months and now I think it's time. Can you guys help me? I'm writing through tears and it makes for a very blurry screen. I told y'all before about Joe and all his tumors, etc., and that I could spend thousands (literally) in testing and medications. But the vet told me honestly that Joe is dying and I could only prolong his life by investing lots of money, but it won't cure him and won't save him for very long. OK, so I called my vet (and others) and asked about euthanasia prices...I can't believe how expensive it is. Almost all were $150 and up to put him to sleep and have a "group" cremation with the ashes spread out to sea. PLEASE DON'T TELL ME if this doesn't happen and instead something awful happens. Please don't. I'll be doing this by myself - driving Joe and me to the Vet; staying beside and petting Joe while the Dr. injects the serum. And if I understand all this correctly, then Joe will just go to sleep. Is that right? Yes Joe will just fall asleep very quickly like within 3 seconds and be gone No more suffering. So, you guys, how can I know this is the right decision? I've prayed to God to give me strength, which he does. But I also asked him if I should be doing this and I don't hear an answer. How can I justify, in my heart, the fact that I'm going to ("kill" is such a harsh word, but...) put down my beloved Joe? How do I do that? If you are unsure whether it is time....DON'T ! Only do if you know in your heart it will be for the best and you can indeed live with yourself. Then, what about his little brother? Y'all told me before that his pal will grieve. I understand what grief is. I buried my beloved son last year. And I know there is no comparison, but now this year, I have to bury my cherished dog. Maybe adopt another dog to keep him company ? I really don't know the answer to this one. Anyway, how do I comfort Koby, my little chi who's known Joe for 10 months? And, how in the heck do I do this? Drive Joe and I to the vet, take him in; then drive home with only his collar?? Only if you are strong enough like I said. I can't even write this to y'all without crying and I'm pretty sure I won't be any braver when I drive us to Joe's death. Please say something to me that will help. Thank you, Carolyn, Joe, Koby and Emma Rose I pray to the Father above to guide you in your decision and to comfort you whichever way you decide to go. I pray for your peace.
Much Love,Mare
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