Aside: does anyone have a copy of the "I am not a lady" essay?  I'd be
interested to read it.

Jeff

On Wed, Feb 8, 2023 at 9:54 AM Tony Parkes via Contra Callers <
contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:

> Joe Harrington wrote:
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> *> *When I started dancing in the late 1980s… Callers were taking the
> revolutionary step of not calling "men" and "women" but rather using
> "ladies" and "gents", to signal that switching roles was ok, since nobody
> referred to themselves as a "lady" or a "gent" in casual conversation.
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> Where was this, Joe? And are you talking about contra callers (rather than
> ECD)? I can only speak about the NYC area in the 1960s and early ’70s, and
> New England starting in the late ’60s and continuing to the present. In
> both regions, square/contra callers (contras were a subcategory of square
> dance until around 1975) universally used “gents/ladies.” (I believe ECD
> teachers have always used “men/women,” presumably emulating Playford and
> Cecil Sharp.) AFAIK, northeastern callers pretty consistently used
> “gents/ladies” until some of them started to move away from gender-related
> terms. Tolman and Page’s *Country Dance Book* (1937) uses “gents/ladies,”
> as do most of the other standard American dance books from the 1900s to the
> 1950s (a few, aimed at schoolteachers, use “boys/girls”).
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> I know of no region where callers changed from “men/women” to
> “gents/ladies.” I know that some callers, beginning I think in the ’80s,
> changed from “gents/ladies” to “men/women,” feeling that “gentlemen” and
> “ladies” smacked of classism. (One female caller, in an essay titled “I am
> not a lady,” requested that other callers not use her contra compositions
> if they adhered to “gents/ladies.”) As an amateur (= lover) of dance
> history, I would like to know about past changes of which I was unaware.
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> Tony Parkes
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