It seems there is no message I can send to this list where something minor
that I say isn't misconstrued, and diverts part of the ensuing discussion.
Yes, OF COURSE the main goal of the event is to give the couple and their
guests a great time! It's a WEDDING, for goodness' sake!  If I can make it
a riotous blast of fun, maybe someone will come to our dance.  Maybe not.
But, if I don't, nobody will.  That's all I intended.

Thanks to those who are offering substantive advice on how to plan and call!

--jh--



On Mon, Jul 3, 2023 at 4:30 PM Jerome Grisanti <[email protected]>
wrote:

> I would release any idea that wedding guests will have any interest in
> dancing beyond this event. Keep things VERY simple. You can do an hour with
> dances containing only allemandes, do-si-dos, circles and promenades. Maybe
> a modified swing/2-hand turn.
>
> On Mon, Jul 3, 2023, 3:53 PM Joe Harrington via Contra Callers <
> [email protected]> wrote:
>
>> Any advice for calling weddings? I've been asked to call my first one and
>> I don't see a lot of wedding-specific advice online. What do you ask them
>> in advance, how do you approach it, what are good dances to call?
>>
>> I'm assuming that a workshop is impractical, so it's barn dances and
>> maybe working up to a contra by the end?  Try to teach a swing?  Some
>> advice I've gotten so far:
>>
>> Band - can they play contras, am I DJing instead, if so what kind of
>> music, trad or pop?
>> Floor - make sure it's big enough, get length, width, and surface
>> Sound system - what is it and is there a sound tech?
>> Duration - how long they'll want to dance
>> Dancers - how many, any experienced guests?
>> Special dances - first, parents, bouquet, last?
>> Will the bride and groom dance? (If not, nobody will)
>> Will there be alcohol? (one person suggested doubling the fee if there is)
>> Will many women be in high heels?
>>
>> I welcome any advice!  My main goal in taking wedding gigs is recruiting
>> new dancers to our local scene, if that matters.
>>
>> Thanks,
>>
>> --jh--
>>
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