Like Julian, we do it matter of factly, just handing out the Lark and Robin 
tags at the door when people arrive.

We also teach neighbour swings in our group with the non-ballroom hands holding 
at the elbows, (rather on the back) which gives a bit more space and comfort 
for any two folks to swing, even if they're not used to/super comfortable being 
close to someone of the same gender.

We also work our way up to swings gradually - doing more balancing and 
allemanding at the start - no swings for the first few dances -, which gives 
ppl time to get accustomed to dancing with anyone, before doing something that 
does feel a bit more intimate.

Oct 14, 2023 12:57:59 AM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers 
<[email protected]>:

> "L for Larks on the Left, R for Robins on the Right." New dancers don't even 
> need to know roles were gendered, and results I've seen over the years is men 
> are much more likely to try the righthand role.
> 
> Julian Blechner
> Western Mass
> 
> On Fri, Oct 13, 2023, 10:31 PM Michael Fuerst via Contra Callers 
> <[email protected]> wrote:
>> Several months ago someone posted on a thread here her/his excellent 
>> approach to this.
>> Does anyone know in which thread this was?
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