At every style workshop—even if it’s 3 minutes in the middle of an evening 
dance—I like to say, “You can’t fix others, but you can take care of yourself.” 
Then a reminder of the importance of “I” statements: I need more support, I’m 
uncomfortable with this hold—can we figure something out together?, I need more 
space, etc.  

Lisa Greenleaf



> On Jul 19, 2024, at 9:30 AM, John Sweeney via Contra Callers 
> <[email protected]> wrote:
> 
> Hi Alex,
>               For a Ladies’ Chain I would suggest that the Man stepping 
> forwards with his right leg is even better.  I always say, “Men, when I say, 
> “Ladies’ Chain” I am talking it to the MEN  - wake up!  The Ladies know what 
> to do.  You need to get your right hip in and your right arm ready to scoop 
> the Lady up.”  I then demonstrate the Man waiting, then walking the Lady 
> around a big circle vs the Man stepping in and whirling the Lady around in a 
> tight circle ready for the next move.*
>  
> * Please replace “Men” and “Ladies” with your favourite words.  I can never 
> remember which is which! :-)   And please don’t forget the apostrophes!
>  
>             Happy dancing,
>                    John                       
>                                     
> John Sweeney, Dancer, England   [email protected] 
> <mailto:[email protected]> 01233 625 362 & 07802 940 574
> http://www.contrafusion.co.uk <http://www.contrafusion.co.uk/> for Dancing in 
> Kent                                          
>  
> From: Alex Burka via Contra Callers <[email protected]> 
> Sent: 19 July 2024 14:20
> To: Shared Weight Contra Callers <[email protected]>
> Subject: [Callers] Re: What are your favorite “style points?”
>  
> A helpful one that's often passed over in beginner lessons is for the lark to 
> take a step to the right at the beginning of a robins chain, as the robin is 
> leaving. It puts you in a better position to start the courtesy turn and 
> finish it on time.
>  
> Alex 
> 
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