On Wed, Aug 24, 2016 at 07:56:14AM +0100, Mark Steward wrote:
> On Wed, Aug 24, 2016 at 3:22 AM, Zenaan Harkness <z...@freedbms.net> wrote:
> > On Wed, Aug 24, 2016 at 12:50:47AM +0000, Sean Lynch wrote:
> > > Thanks for the recommendation. Bought a copy (via Google, because I'm
> > lazy
> > > & the DRM is easier to break on Linux than Amazon's).
> > >
> > > Data mining and throwing people in jail for "precrimes" using parallel
> > > construction to back-construct a plausible evidence trail is already
> > > commonplace. It's more than a little silly that it's "feminazis" that
> > juan
> > > and his ilk are afraid of
> >
> > Sean, are you actually lacking in the self awareness to discern your own
> > offensive rhetoric?
> >
> > Or are you actually intending to offend?
> 
> Hey, I think we hit a nerve there.

Yes.

I apologize for not communicating clearly.

In the West, around most matters re sex, I see hypocrisy,
contradictions, unchallenged assertions and implications and outright
slander. Basically terrible communication besides plenty other issues.

Regarding poor communication I blame a fair part of this on our
schooling system which completely fails so many of us on some things
that are so important - at least when I went through school we never had
any classes on how to communicate with any of our peers whom we might
imagine the possibility of a relationship - which for me was the
greatest heartache growing up and the most significant thing dominating
my consciousness (the possibility of and desire for an intimate
relationship, the inability to begin such a conversation, and the lack
of awareness (or unconscious suppression or whatever) of the fact that
actually starting a conversation was actually my only problem - it took
some years into "adulthood" and university before I surmounted my chasm
of absolute fear and actually, yes it's true, began conversations with
"possible of my peers".

I discovered that variations on "hello" was not a bad way to start a
conversation.

Death defying to do so in my experience.

But I actually managed to live through saying "hello", eventually many
times!  I know, I know - might sound pretty sad now, but hey, that was
my journey.

There are some folks, perhaps even those not still in their "younger
years" who suffer all manner of insecurities, fears, and yes, certainly
painful memories from childhood and or adulthood.

Really we owe it to one another to try and lift the dialogue. I'll keep
working on mine - evidently needs plenty of improvement...

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