right, so we probably have an update step where bad things that apply to us, go to the boss, and good things, go to other people than the boss
[and the experiences did the opposite, and the hope is it makes something roughly equal, maybe]
Undescribed Horrific Abuse, One Victim & Survivor of Many Sun, 08 Jan 2023 10:55:47 -0800
right, so we probably have an update step where bad things that apply to us, go to the boss, and good things, go to other people than the boss
[and the experiences did the opposite, and the hope is it makes something roughly equal, maybe]