> personally, i have only had a few relationships in my life, and the > system did not expect this and we engaged a lot of unexpected edge > situations where things did not go amazingly for a lot of people. > today i have trouble with sex and romance because of this exposure to > possibly-unintended sexual slavery.
my rule of thumb when life was normal was to know somebody for a year before having sex. i am not judeochristian. sorry if my rule of thumb was or is frustrating, people have different preferences.
