something that's been really useful for me is how influence at a distance is very poor at contextualizing detail appropriately, so can be repurposed for similar nearby things
unfortunately near the start of my experience this was used very harmfully to my severe disadvantage in a way that pervades now it's still what keeps me around in many ways, the good parts of that that are pro-me, not the horrible parts that e.g. stimulate huge guilt around entering via my own window when i misplaced my keycard.
