hi, i am married and i think its sad when a couple drift away from each other.
i think communication is a very important thing in any relationship. as long
as you talk to each other and tell each other all the time how they feel and
also have no secrets. my husband and i both spend a bit of time on the
computer but we also spend time together.
DAMIEN & RACHEL
MARRIED
25th JUNE 2005
VISIT MY BLOG AT@
http://rachelhoney.klango.net
----- Original Message -----
From: Sean Ray
To: [email protected]
Sent: Friday, September 05, 2008 5:01 AM
Subject: {dbilg} Re: Very valuable lesson.
Drew,
Marriage can be a very wonderful and precious thing. This couple had the
ideal marriage and were even promoting marriage at different retreats, etc. So,
no one is imune.
Friends,
Sean
----- Original Message -----
From: DREW PARKER III
To: [email protected]
Sent: Thursday, September 04, 2008 5:24 PM
Subject: {dbilg} Re: Very valuable lesson.
I definitely agree but I have never been married.
----- Original Message -----
From: Sean Ray
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, September 04, 2008 12:24 PM
Subject: {dbilg} Very valuable lesson.
Hello to all. I have a true story to tell you and I hope you will read
and pray I have a Friend we'll just call B. She lost
her husband to the computer and internet. After flirting for awhile, he
had convinced himself that he was unhappy with his wife B and left her for
some other woman in slum like conditions. He has moved from state to state to
try to find happiness but always comes back to the computer girlfriend he found
while living with his wife B.
Meanwhile his wife thought they were so blissfully in love and supported
him. She knew he was addicted to the computer but loved him anyway. This is a
couple that swore that they would never part. the whole thing is very sad. Now
whenever I see either play or real email flirting, I just delete the message
directly and start praying. These people are devout Christians. He is still
wandering away and it's all because of the internet. To this day I'm not sure I
understand how anyone who says they are a Christian can flirt with married
people especially if they know the person is married. It breaks my heart when I
see this because I've have watched the damage it can do. B's husband is still
wandering. He is still thinking he's right in being separated from B. So the
moral of this story is to be careful. What can start out as joking and having
fun can plant seeds of discontentment in the heads of married people, etc. If
you're single and saying you're a Christian, a little bit of that goes a long
ways. So, be careful. Life and a life long marriage is precious. Hold on
tightly to it. Watching my friend go through and suffer as she has causes me to
never take my marriage for granted. I've been sitting here chewing on this for
quite awhile and wanted to say something but didn't know how. I guess I have to
come out with the truth and the truth will set me free. Also when you talking
all lovey lovey and romantic to each other and then talk about being so
religious, it sounds like a person practicing religion and not the walk with
the Lord. I think it breaks His heart too.
This is the last you'll ever hear me speak of the matter. I've already
said how I feel and debating or discussing won't change my mind. I've seen to
much and the Lord said that today was the day to leave this warning. I'm not
judging, but have just seen too much of other people's pain. That's why I'm
speaking out today. I'm praying that lives can be spared from misery and ruin.
While one is looking for frolic and fun, the other person is left heart broken.
So, have fun teasing and joking with each other but be careful in this one
area. that's all.
Seany
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