Friday
November 14, 2008

CHOICES?

When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, your lives will produce 
these evil results: sexual immorality, impure thoughts, eagerness for lustful
pleasure, idolatry, participation in demonic activities, hostility, quarreling, 
jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, divisions, the feeling
that everyone is wrong except those in your own little group, envy, 
drunkenness, wild parties, and other kinds of sin. Let me tell you again, as I 
have
before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of 
God.
But when the Holy Spirit controls our lives, he will produce this kind of fruit 
in us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,
and self-control. Here there is no conflict with the law. 
Galatians 5:19-23

It seems to me that much of our lives revolve around choices. The choice to 
give in to the Holy Spirit or our sinful selves is a major choice and we deal
with it many times a day. Learning to discern the old versus the new can be 
difficult at times for people who grew up not knowing they ever had a choice
- believe me I know. This is especially real for me as I watch Cody.

When Cody began acting out recently, I mean really acting out, I realized just 
how much emotions can control a person's behavior. Of course he is only 
nine-years-old,
but his anger, his emotions control his every waking moment. It's as though he 
is always on an emotional roller coaster ride. This young boy has always
had a roof over his head, something to eat, and just about every toy one can 
imagine, but that's not what he concentrates on. He thinks about how he wants
to see his dad and the different guys his mom has had a relationship with. He's 
also angry because she doesn't live with us any more. Yet, at his age he
doesn't realize he has a choice whether or not to be angry, so he just gives in 
to his anger.

He is jealous of his nine-year-old cousin because Austin's mother has the same 
boyfriend and has lived in the same house for five years. Therefore, Cody
takes out a lot of his anger out on Austin who, although he is only a month 
younger than Cody, he is light years behind him in many ways.

Paul lays it on the line for all of us; there are definite results when we 
operate according to our sinful nature. For instance, the moment I feel a little
bit of jealousy rearing its ugly head in my life I try to question what is 
really going on. It usually boils down to the fact that I feel threatened. The
best thing to do in those moments is to call on the name of the Lord. Instead, 
too often we give in to our flesh and jealousy progresses to outbursts of
anger, etc., and can even lead a person to believe that those in his or her own 
little group are the only ones with the truth.

I read the following quote somewhere, it is good and I think you just might get 
something from it. "As we take responsibility for our lives, we must also
take responsibility for obeying the Holy Spirit's instructions. Then, as we 
continue the process of spiritual renewal, God's Spirit will begin to produce
fruit in our lives.Fruit doesn't instantly grow on trees. As trees grow and 
seasons pass, fruit slowly develops. In a similar way, as we continue to accept
our responsibility to obey the Holy Spirit, good spiritual fruit will begin to 
appear in our lives. Our primary responsibility is to stay connected to
God. It is the Holy Spirit's responsibility to produce good fruit in us."

As we submit our feelings and fears to the Lord, He will work things out for 
our good and bear the fruit necessary for our journey. All we have to do is
make the right choices according to His Word each day and not let our emotions 
direct our path.

Father, we come to You, laying our worst fears at Your feet. We know that You 
will walk with us through the storms and help us lay aside the old and make
room for the new in our lives, and lay aside our emotions. Thank You for 
helping choose the right path.

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O. Addison Gethers
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