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The Power of Prayer
Tanya James 

Recently I found myself very disappointed in someone I considered a good 
friend. They did something to me that I felt (and still feel) was totally 
unacceptable
and it was hard for me to swallow. I knew that I needed to forgive them and let 
it go but I just couldn't wrap my head around it at the time.

Not wanting to hold a grudge, I began to quote any and every scripture I could 
remember (and maybe a few I made up) on forgiveness. But it seemed the moment
I stopped quoting scripture, I got mad all over again.

Throughout that week, I kept rehearsing what happened and when I shared it with 
my husband and my sister, I got even angrier - it was like every time I
told the story, the fire was being fueled. So I decided that I needed to stop 
talking about it because that was not helping the situation.

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I'm sure you have all been there before ...maybe it wasn't a friend, perhaps it 
was a sibling, a co-worker, a neighbor or even someone at church. Whoever
it was, they crossed you in some form or fashion and raised your blood 
pressure. You found yourself on this never ending cycle of anger because you 
couldn't
quite let it go. 

In time, I realized that forgiveness is very hard in our own power... and at 
some point, I cleared my head and took it to God in prayer ...and yet again,
God amazed me with his ability to bring an inner peace in the midst of any 
situation. 

Prayer is by far the greatest weapon we have. Prayer causes you to change your 
perspective on things.

While in prayer, God reminded me of the many times I had turned my back on Him. 
The many times I had disappointed Him. Yet, not once has He held back his
forgiveness towards me. 

He also reminded me that no one except Him is flawless, so I must not put 
people on a pedestal or expect them to never let me down. Yes, we expect certain
things like respect from our friends, however at some point, we have probably 
all disrespected someone we cared about. How is it that we expect people
to always be willing to forgive us but when the tables are turned - watch out!

Through prayer, I realized it was alright for me to be hurt by the situation, 
but it wasn't alright for me to dwell there. God healed my wounds and gave
me the courage to step back out and not allow this situation to dictate my 
mood, attitude or behavior towards the person who offended me.

There is something to be said about the power of prayer ...next time I won't 
wait so long to use it!

Tanya James

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