Buster has just moved on to Thunar 1.6.14 by now - I can confirm that in
1.6.14 the bug is fixed for me, I see similar behaviour to what Chris
Tillman has reported, which is fine. The patch that I linked to above is
included in 1.6.14 so that seems consistent with what I'd expext to see.
I cannot vouch for Thunar 1.6.13; it seems to have temporarily adopted a
different patch entirely, namely this:
<https://salsa.debian.org/xfce-team/desktop/thunar/commit/c5f144203e17769b8d4d9c33706bad7f128b64ee>
AFAICT, that patch was never included in upstream, and seems to have
been removed from Buster now that Thunar has gone to 1.6.14.