I may be a bit old fashioned here but I would handle this in a database. You have tables that determine how your app behaves. The ASP reads the database and behaves accordingly. The console writes to the database to change the behavior. This is much simpler than any remoting setup you might do. Without knowing what kind of behavior you want to affect its hard to say if this solution would work for you, but imagine it would.
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