Hello Pln Lil Pablo and all cafe goers, It seems Lil and Pablo are the bravest ones among us to answer Pln's questions of Taboos and Issues.;)
I'm not courageous enough to reply to all,either.Pablo set a bad example.So if you want to blame,blame it to him then!LOL In one way or another,people reach maturity at their own pace.Maturity isn't just about physical development because I find people in different countries reach their mental maturity quite differently.There are a lot of elements involved...cultural differences,family backgrounds,social expectations,etc. Since I could remember,I myself have found associating with people of my age not stimulating enough.It's much rewarding being with people older than me.They have taught me a lot about all aspects of life and their observations of other people. The most amazing part of this kind of relationship is the way they see the world in general...When they see it through a particular angle,it's something you would never even think of looking at that way.You will only say with a "WOW"!;) That's it.Someone else's turn now!!! Nice day, Claire On Feb 13, 2:02 pm, Lílian <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi PLN and everybody! > > Pablo, here I come in a Knight shining armour for your emotional > rescue hehehehe :) By the way, marrying again will be great! ;) > > Well, number one: > > In order not to disturb studies, young people could start going out > with boyfriend/girlfriend by 17 or 18, I think. > Sex is polemic...in my opinion, one should start having it, when one > is responsible and independent enough to bear consequences. > Marriage only after finishing studies, having a job, in brief, when > both are ready to share a life together. > Children: if there is a plan, it is better. > > Number two: > > There is no old age for loving, enjoying the company of someone we > love and, why not, marry this someone! Having children will depend on > age and physical conditions. > > Number three: > > I like interesting and intelligent people with a good sense of > humour. > > Number four: > > Oh, this is tricky heehehe... > It will depend on the kind of relationship, the couple's expectations > and on the age difference, of course. Let's take for example a guy of > 25 and a woman of 50. Is it possible? Yes, it is. I think that the > couple need to take into consideration that the woman will soon not be > able to have kids and that after some time her body will not be so > attractive to him. If the relationship is serious, there is respect > and love, it can work fine. > > Wishing you all a nice day! > > Lil > > On Feb 13, 1:30 am, Pablo <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > Hi everyone! > > > > Please bear in mind that they are not meant to start any fires.I'm > > > simply asking for your own ideas.;) > > > 1 At what age do you consider someone is old enough to: > > > #begin going out with a boyfriend/girlfriend? > > > at high school age, isn't it? > > > > # have sex? > > > I could say, it would be better after adolescence, provided the couple > > are prepared to face up to an eventual pregnancy. > > > To smoke a cigarette or to drink people must be at least 18. I think > > having sex at earlier ages is not convenient at all, even though if > > teenagers take precautions to avoid pregnancy. I could add, it > > doesn't make much sense to talk about boyfriends/girlfriends during > > childhood but until puberty. > > > > #get married? > > > I could say, at 28-30 ;) > > > > # have children? > > > Tree or five years after marriage ;) There is no hurry, isn't there? > > > > 2 At what age are peole too old for the activities above,in your > > > opinion? > > > going out: never people is too old, anyway, in a perfect way, it > > should be a couples' decision > > > having sex: it's a decision of each couple > > > getting married: some couples get married at late ages, after living > > together not being legally married. You need to be brave/crazy enough > > to do it. By the way, my wife wants me to marry her for a second time! > > This time before an altar. She is crazy! ;) > > > have children: over 40-42 > > > > 3 Is it generally better if people go out with people of a similar > > > age? Why? Why not? > > > it's better, why not? because there is more affinity between couples > > of the same age, but you know, there can be exceptions > > > > 4 What advantages can there be for a young man to have a relationship > > > with an older woman?Any disadvantages? > > > I refuse to answer the rest of your questions! ;) enough is > > enough! ;) Someboy, help me please! ;) > > > Thank you, > > > Pablo > > > > What advantages can there be for a younger woman to see an older > > > man?Any disadvantages? > > > > Thank you and best regards, > > > ELC- Hide quoted text - > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "English Learner's Cafe" group. 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