Now that's going to hurt what I'm about to say!LOL I have always been thankful for those who have loved me or whom I have loved... Each and everyone of them have stayed in my heart no matter what happened.
I don't regard my past with those who left me or those I left behind as wounds or scars at all. Maybe that's very abnormal of me!LOL Definitely!!! It's true that everything in life is risky,and nothing is foolproof as Anu said. So what?If you're afraid of being hurt,you're afraid of living a real life! My concern is actually not to hurt more people than being hurt by them! Abnormal again,I suppose!LOL Certainly there are plenty of unhappy married women,disrespectful husbands and domestic violence everywhere else in the world. The difference is that people elsewhere are aware that it's unforgivable and against the law to beat up their wives,and those who suffer from such violence have places to turn to for protection,help and care... Well,that's my piece of mind!:) After doing so,I wonder if I will get some peace of mind...LOL And Oshiro and Claire,another 2 quick-witted members I left out to mention... Sorry for my bad manner!LOL If anyone else feels the same way,please speak up as for me to know you better!LOL Pleasant day to us all! Pln On Jul 22, 6:42 pm, Anu <[email protected]> wrote: > "As for letting horoscope determine our marriage as Anu said,I also > find it a little risky. " > > Every wound leaves scars. When you break up with someone, the sweetest > moments spent together become bitter wounds in your memory, . Maybe, > its easy for you to break up with someone, you were taking trails > with, but its not so easy for everyone. > > Its not easy to live long with bitter wounds and scars of past life. > > "Correct me if I am wrong,will you? " > These customs are not just for women. They are the same for both men > and women. > > Are women in your country happier? > > Are men in your country more liberal and respectful towards women? > > Do women in your countries don't face any domestic violence? > > Do people, who live together for years or decades, not sometimes > strangers to each other? Are not all of us strangers till we meet for > the first time. > > I am not trying to justify or criticize any custom or practice. I am > only trying to say that nothing is foolproof. Right and wrong is just > a notion. > > "If the other person injures you, you may forget the injury; but if > you injure him you will always remember." > > "When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall > find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you > joy. > > When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see > that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. " > > -Gibran > > regards > anu --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "English Learner's Cafe" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/english_learners?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
