Thanks Lee;

--- AJ DeMarzo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Thanks Lee;
> 
> 
>   ----- Original Message ----- 
>   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
>   To: [email protected] 
>   Sent: Saturday, January 05, 2008 8:47 AM
>   Subject: [ercoupe-flyin] Eoc responds
> 
> 
> 
>   First I would like to applaud Ed and Al for
> joining the EOC, it reflects credit on their
> character and illustrates they really have the best
> interest of Ercoupes at heart and are grown men not
> children.
> 
>   For all who aren't a member of EOC and were
> offended by Skip's Buzz off comment and now they
> won't ever join because of it, I offer the
> following.
> 
>   The EOC, flyin and tech forums are of the same
> family, but not the immediate family, lets say
> cousins.  Members of each of these groups are
> individual families and govern how each one conducts
> its business.  If one is not a member of the EOC and
> begins or joins a critical discertation on what is
> wrong with them and how poorly the head of the
> family is operating it, well those comments may or
> may not be considered by the group or head of the
> group.  Looking at it like my personal family,
> should someone jump on me like a herd of turtles, I
> being of the personality I am would resent it and
> telling them to buzz off would be the most polite
> thing I would do.  Now should the criticism be made
> in a constructive manner, instead of a negative
> attack into which many jumped, then feathers would
> not be ruffled and the comments would be more likely
> to be taken seriously.  In reading all the comments
> posted, it seemed to follow a linch mob mentality. 
> It was started and many jumped in because it was an
> attack.  
> 
>   All this is not to comment on the accuracy of any
> of the criticisms, just that we take pride in our
> families and don't like someone saying" Hey, did you
> hear how ole Lee is screwing up the raising of his
> kids" and placing it where I will be likely to see
> it.  
> 
>   Now if you marry into the family (join)
> constructive comments have more weight.  Negative
> comments and criticism made in a negative manner is
> seldom accepted.  So if you were offended by a Buzz
> Off which in my opinion wasjustified and because of
> that won't join, I personally don't see your action
> as really having any substance behind your critical
> comments made in the first place.  It also shows a
> true lack of desire to further the goal of making
> the EOC, tech and flyin forums the best possible
> ones around and perhaps the negative and critical
> comments were made just to be negative and critical
> and not for the good of the clubs.
> 
>   Also, a personal idea, when you throw rocks and
> don't expect to receive any in return, well that is
> sort of like a spoiled child that feels they can say
> anything they want and the recepient is suppose to
> stay quiet.
> 
>   So grow up and act like a responsible adult, join
> the club, and volunteer to help.
> 
>   Now blast me away children.
> 
>   Lee Browning
> 
> 
> 
>   Thanks Dan, but I'm a non-member. So I followed
> the instructions in the opening statement ...
> 
>     and Buzzed Off.
> 
>   It was so inappropriate for the Executive Director
> of the EOC to come here and tell all non-members
> (which are technically potential new members) to
> Buzz Off.
> 
>   Ironically, Dan Hall (unknowingly) almost had me
> talked into joining myself and my partner. I was
> even considering talking to Dan in regard to hosting
> a Big Bear Fly-In at my company hangar. To be
> absolutely honest, that was more than just a bit of
> a turn-off. In the mid 90's thru 2000 when I had my
> last Coupe, I was a member of EOC. In fact I was an
> advertiser in Coupe Capers as well. I have to admit
> that I find it shocking that any principal would
> talk to potential new members and advertisers in
> such a manner. Seems to be a pretty unhealthy move
> for EOC. I'm not sure what was expected to be
> accomplished in doing so, but I high suspect that it
> won't yield positive results for anybody.
> 
>   Richard
> 
> 
> 
>  
>
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