Hello Pln, Gail and all Pln, I have to confess I was kind of reluctant to read about that, besides I had my mind made. After reading the article until the end, I started wondering that what the author wrote makes sense, although I don´t know if it´s the best choice for a woman to take.
The author mentioned something interesting, men takes longer to process their feelings while women is the opposite. It really makes sense. It would be a bad deal if a woman says 'I love you' to a man who still is not completely aware toward his feelings. But now, in my opinion, I believe women can say 'I love you' when she feels that the time has come and both are 'syncronized' and as everything, the man´s response can be positive or negative. It can happen to men as well not just to women. I sincerely feel that women from the group can express their opinions since this is a subject they tend to enjoy talking about when they are hanging out. :) Have a nice day Oshiro On Mon, Oct 19, 2009 at 1:14 AM, Wichuda Satidporn <[email protected]>wrote: > Hello there, > > Some women might think that it is inappropriate manner which is related to > their culture, while others could not to say due to their personalities. In > my opinion, it depends on each person. Women now have more confident enough > to say or express their feeling direct toward men,yet, womem in the past, > they could express romance feeling in may ways. > > Some men would love women who first tell them " I love you". They would > think that these women have more charming, smart,and confidence as well > as brave. If a man do not love her, she will think that it is fine, she will > find another. She has more powerful and independent. On the other hand, some > men would not love women who express their feeling first. Basically, men > have natural hunting instinct. Hence, they really love do searching and > follow up thier prey. They would think women who tell them first are not > challenge. Surly, those women do not have anything to find out. Nothing > interest. Those women might not have the secrets. > > At this point, we got briefly conclusion that women have learnt one of > men's instincts for a long time. Hence,they are so smart and have many > techniques and options to tell. > It depends on their decisions. > > That is my two cents worth. > > Gail > > > > On Sun, Oct 18, 2009 at 9:10 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > >> >> Dear all, >> >> Remember Claire's previous thread: >> "How easy/difficult is it for you to say 'I love you'? >> >> Now that's a very interesting article related to what she posted and >> what we discussed earlier! >> >> I am curious about your feedback,both man and woman members,after you >> read it!;) >> (Oshiro and Eckman,please don't skip it,will you?!LOL) >> >> http://www.yourtango.com/200914398/why-women-shouldnt-say-i-love-you-first >> >> http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-why-a-woman-shouldnt-say-i-love-you-first/ >> >> Wonderful Sunday and great week ahead! >> Pln >> >> --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
