--- In [email protected], "shempmcgurk" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> Thank you, Ben, great story and very uplifting.
> 
> The sentiments you expressed matched many of mine.
> 
> 
> 
> 
> --- In [email protected], "benjaminccollins" 
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > 
> > I taught my daughter to meditate
> > 
> > My daughter is 10.  She is tall and blonde and has bright eyes 
and 
> a
> > quick wit.  Her name is Anna, although I always call her Annie 
> which
> > she is starting to dislike because she's getting older.  She is 
in 
> the
> > 5th grade in the Sherman Oaks Center for Enriched Studies which 
> means
> > that she had a lot of homework, too much homework.  She bravely 
> tries
> > to do everything the best she can, but add a 45 minute bus ride 
and
> > she's getting way too stressed.
> > 
> > My kids all know that I meditate, and that I do pujas, and go to 
> the
> > Hindu Temple.  There are lots of Ganeshas in my home and it is 
all
> > part of their world.  But I have never pushed it on them.  We 
talk
> > about it at times, and they know that if I don't meditate I get
> > cranky.  So when I quietly suggested to Annie that she might 
feel 
> less
> > stressed if she meditated, she said that she thought it might be 
a
> > good idea.
> > 
> > I gave her some short explanations that amounted to brief intro 
and
> > second lecture during the week.  Then on Sunday morning we sat 
down
> > together in my puja room.  The puja room is bed room sized and
> > contains my spiritual library and 2 elaborate altars with a 3 
foot
> > stone Ganesha and a 4 foot Durga along with Vishnu, Lakshmi and 
> other
> > deities.
> > 
> > I did my TM puja and felt the wonderful feeling that I enjoyed 
> when I
> > taught regularly in the 70's.  I haven't taught much since; just 
a
> > friend here and there.  The great thing about the puja is that 
you 
> can
> > feel your awareness change.  The feeling of connectedness to 
Guru 
> Dev
> > is real, distinct and completely different from any temple puja 
or
> > yagya experience I have ever had.  
> > 
> > And at the end of the puja, when I gave Annie the mantra she 
> repeated
> > it a few times and then it just pulled her in and her eyes gently
> > closed.  We finished the initiation process and when she opened 
her
> > eyes after her first 10 minute meditation, she smiled sweetly 
and 
> said
> > "that was really nice".
> > 
> > I am proud of my daughter.  Now she meditates during her bus 
ride 
> each
> > day.  Already she is feeling less stressed, less tired, and 
> happier. 
> > That makes me happy.
> > 
> > There is a another side to this experience.  When I was doing 
the 
> puja
> > I thought about how full of idealism I was in 1971 when I became 
an
> > initiator.  And today I could feel with the same certainty that 
I 
> had
> > back then, that TM was special; that MMY's devotion to Guru Dev 
was
> > deserved and rightly inspirational.
> > 
> > But what happened since then?  As I sat in my puja room, I could 
> feel
> > all the layers of my disappointment and cynicism that 
accumulated 
> over
> > the years as the World Plan failed, there was no Perfect Health 
or
> > anything else, MIU amounted to pretty mcuh nothing, and where 
are 
> all
> > the pundits, not to mention that I've done the 5-8 year plan many
> > times over.
> > 
> > At that time I thought about FFL.  And it seems to me that we 
are 
> all
> > suffering from the same thing; a broken heart.  We all believed 
> and we
> > all had evidence that our belief was not misplaced.  After all, 
> we're
> > still meditating, still hoping that Maharishi is right.  
> > 
> > But not so many think so any more and FFL is a collection of 
people
> > like me who have no reason to believe anything.  We're 
heartbroken,
> > disappointed, and disillusioned.  Rightly so.  
> > 
> > But this past weekend my daughter learned to meditate. Guru Dev 
is
> > alive in my heart and I'm going to hang onto that.





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