> Seems to me there are a lot of "demands" to be replied
> to lately, from a lot of people.

Guilty as charged.  All I have to say in my defense is that you can't
always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find
you get what you need.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> > You asked me to do something, I did it, and you don't 
> > give me the courtesy of a response.
> 
> > You still haven't given me your opinion on the two 
> > 'Natural Law' articles.
> 
> > Rick, did you see my post in which I addressed all
> > the reasons that have been given for ...? I didn't 
> > see any response from you.
> 
> > But what I find fascinating is ... the inability to 
> > answer direct questions about huge claims.
> 
> 
> Seems to me there are a lot of "demands" to be replied
> to lately, from a lot of people.
> 
> Just a reminder: no one on this forum "owes" anyone a 
> reply to anything they post, or to any question they ask. 
> Everyone gets to decide *for themselves* whether to reply 
> to any poster here, or not. Or even whether to bother to 
> *read* their posts in the first place. 
> 
> On an occult level, asking questions like these, that 
> are almost by definition going to lead to an extended
> exchange and/or argument and trying to taunt the other
> persone into replying to them is how "attention vampires" 
> get others to focus on them, so they can get a cheap 
> rush from the attention. A couple of them even say this 
> occasionally without realizing that they're saying it:
> 
> > So if you can answer the below set of questions, I'd be 
> > the better for it. 
> 
> > the only way to do that [force this person to change
> > the way this poster thinks he should change] seems to 
> > be to keep pounding away at the armor in the hope that 
> > one day it'll just give way.
> 
> Attention vampire stuff. Really.
> 
> 
> On a more practical level, here's another reason why you
> might want to consider passing on a reply:
> 
> > If you played fair -- actually responded to questions, 
> > I'd write to you about a ton of stuff...
> 
> :-)
> 
> 
> Bottom line is that reading or replying to another poster
> on this forum or any other is YOUR CALL. The other person
> demanding your attention has nothing to say about it.
> 
> Something to remember next time you fall for a troll and
> find yourself 10-15 posts deep into a draining exchange
> and wonder how the hell you ever managed to get into it.
>


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