--- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
> --- In [email protected], "Jeff Fischer" 
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > --- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> wrote:
> > > One of them has 
> > > to be RIGHT, and the other WRONG.  And therefore the only 
> > > "proper" response to a contrary view is to challenge it 
> > > and draw the other person into an argument, during which 
> > > the goal is to prove one person WRONG and the other RIGHT.
> > 
> > The further "down" somebody is, the stronger the compulsion to 
> > be "RIGHT":  Constant assertion of rightness because one's own 
> > sanity depends on "being right".  IMO the more one aserts 
> > "rightness" in the face of huge evidence to the contrary, the 
> > further down the scale they are.
> 
> I'm not sure I'd say that consistently insisting that
> one is RIGHT indicates that they're low down on some
> scale.  More like terrified to move UP the scale, 
> wherever on it they might be.  Being RIGHT all the
> time disallows learning anything new, which may be
> the whole point.
> 

Unless, of course, you ARE right.





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