--- In [email protected], "Jeff Fischer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > --- In [email protected], "Jeff Fischer" > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > <snip> > > > When peolple push each other's buttons *real* communication > ceases. > > > Communication and the resultant "understanding" is the only hope > > > we've got. > > > > In my experience and observation, hostility > > isn't necessarily in and of itself a barrier > > to communication. > > > > What *is* a barrier to communication is > > dishonesty. > > I understand. Negotiators have to deal with this all the time. My > point is when a "button" is pushed (ie name calling, "get lost" etc) > the hope of any resolution becomes more distant. Find a reality > you can both agree with (if possible) and build from there.
Jeff, I don't even know what that would mean in this situation. This isn't the place to get into it, so I'll just say you don't have anything like the full picture from what you've seen here. To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
