Just as an aside, the subject of the photos that
people choose to post to Internet forums having
come up, has anyone ever noticed that many of
these photos on "social networking" sites like
Facebook and on "dating sites" are taken using
Webcams?

So *why* is this? In this day and age, when a
digital camera is built into almost every phone,
it's certainly not because it's the only way
they can get a digital photo *to* post.

Here's my theory -- the people who post photos
of themselves taken *by* themselves using a 
Webcam do this BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO FRIENDS.

If you had friends or lovers, surely one of them
would have taken a flattering photo of you at
some point, right? Surely one of these photos 
taken by friends and lovers would have managed
to catch you in a photogenic mood, and smiling
an honest smile, captured unawares, not as if
you were "posing" for the camera. It is my 
experience that such photos of me and everyone
I know are the best photos of ourselves. Who
would *not* choose one of these photos to
"represent themselves" to the world online?

People who don't have any friends, that's who.
Their only *option* for taking a photo of them-
selves is to do it themselves, sitting alone
in front of their computer.

Ponder this next time you cruise a dating site
or Facebook. Do you want to go out with or 
"friend" the nerd who has no real-life friends 
to even take a *photo* of him, or do you want 
to go out with or "friend" the person someone 
else clicked a photo of when they were together,
having fun?



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