--- In [email protected], "Rory Goff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], akasha_108 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], "tomandcindytraynor" > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > It takes one hell of a lot of love to appear to be a total flaming > > > assh*le, rageaholic, to the person who needs to hear that anger. > The > > > sage is the delivery vehicle. Delivers what is needed not what is > > > wanted. The sage does his or her job description which can include > > > being anything and everything possible. No limits. > > > Tom T > > > > And then again, as MMy once said, "Sometimes its just bad manners" > > Reminds me of something Cyndi Dale wrote in *Advanced Chakra Healing* > where IIRC she made a beautiful distinction between "nice" and "kind" - > - "niceness" being the warped, false or "polite" version > of "kindness," which is the genuine virtue. Politeness or niceness is > by-the-book morality with no genuine heart, no real compassion or > Truth. (I suspect this kind of heart-falsity may result in > uncontrollable subtle "bleeds" of rage, as in passive-aggressiveness.) > Not only may external politeness be anything but kind: kindness may > also be anything but polite -- her example of the latter being a > passerby's angry yelling at someone who is physically abusing their > child.
Thats a nice distinction. Words are important, along with their understood meanings. They shape verbal communications. And differences in he understanding nuance and subtext of words are the basis for much misunderstanding. And words/learned conotations also form the basis of upper level thinking. (In contrast to deeper level thinking which is less verbal, more feeling, clear, imagmatic -- where intended meaning is apparent) To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
