--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <jst...@...> wrote: > > snip[ > > Isn't it convenient how this psychobabble excuses > your behavior?
You made up the shame spin on me not arguing with people who thought you were out of line for giving me shit when I came here. The tribe spoke and you got voted off. Deal with it. > > And "victimhood" is yet another weasel term (also > one Barry uses, quelle surprise). Naming things with labels doesn't make them less useful as descriptive terms for describing behavior. You are playing up your victim hood, it is a constant theme. > > Of course, we don't ever see Barry (or you) > complaining about being victimized. > > <horselaugh> Because that is not my filter. I don't allow myself to be victimized. > > You're quite right, Curtis, you aren't at your best > when you're under fire. I don't enjoy your shame vibe. But as far as a putdown, that was lame. With or without horselaughs you are portraying yourself as a victim and I'm not buying it. It has become part of your identity now and challenging it meets with survival level push-back. Hey you deal with me as you wish. I like that you answer in detail Judy. You are an odd duck, but at least you write a lot. And when it is off the personal topics you write well. I'm a fan of this place and you are a big part of it. >
