--- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> I have to write and thank Tom (I think) for the recent post
> in which he suggested that at a certain point in one's evol-
> ution it was possibly more accurate to think of desires as 
> 'appreciation' than it was to think of them as desires.
> I got a real taste of that yesterday.
 ...
> And *appreciating*.  It really wasn't an issue of desire, or
> of wanting anything from these passing women.  I just 
> found myself *appreciating* them, without having to form
> any judgments about them or "rank" them or think about 
> them much at all.

SSRS expresses a similar theme. He says enjoy all the beauty around
you, just don't claim or seek ownership. Just that thought loosened me
up quite a bit, letting go of the striving, seeking to obtain things
of beauty -- whether women in a relationsip, fine furniture or art or
some beautiful flowers in the park. 

Fully appreciate it when its in you "space" and then let go. Letting
go is the key. And actually sets you up for the next wave of
appreciation. You can't fully appreciate B when still striving to
obtain  A. 





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