--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "whynotnow7" <whynotnow7@...> wrote: > > Yeah the gratuitous bashing really took away from what could > have been a fine piece of writing.
It's not just the constant, compulsive putdowns, it's the relentless, monotonous, smug "I'm so special" drumbeat of self-exaltation that accompanies the putdowns. I mean, he can't even write a little travelogue that doesn't follow this pattern: --He's special because sightseeing, visiting museums, and sitting in cafes is his ("but not everybody's") idea of a holiday. --He's special because he prefers watching women to watching beggars and sadhus (unlike his friend in Arunachala). --He's special because he appreciates good beer (unlike Purusha). --He's special because he finds mussels with fries and beer satisfying (but "some wouldn't"). He can't just say, "I did this and I enjoyed it. I ate that and I enjoyed it." He has to make himself *special*, better than other people, because of what he likes to do (even though what he likes to do is actually quite ordinary). He can't give his opinion on anything without letting you know how special he thinks he is to have that opinion and how inferior he considers anyone who has a different one. And then from time to time he'll go on one of his rants about how ridiculous it is for anybody to think of themselves as special--and how special *he* is not to think of himself as special.