--- In [email protected], Rick Archer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > on 8/16/05 11:57 AM, Vaj at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > > > I have a number of things I'd be glad to share with you that could help > > in this difficult time. > > > > One is simply an audio series on death and dying from the lama who > > wrote _The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying_, Sogyal Rinpoche. It not > > only helps give perspective and solace, but explains dying and living. > > > > I also had a video piece on my download site called "Wisdom has no fear > > of death". It's Ram Das' advice on death and dying based on his > > personal work with the death transition. I have shared this video with > > many people and all have found it very helpful. I can upload this again > > if you do not have a copy. > > > > I have worked with numerous dying people, I am sure you are well aware > > there are practices to help in the death process--indeed they can > > enable one to attain enlightenment at the moment of death. I'm sure > > there is someone in your area who could perform this if it interests > > you. Please feel free to contact me offlist if there's anything I can > > do to help. > > > I uploaded something by Michael Baxter called "Who Dies" which might be > helpful. It's at http://tinyurl.com/8xcm8
Frankly, thanks for all the advice on handling my mom's death, but its not the DEATH that is troubling me so much as watching the dying. My mom appears to be all-but-gone already. It's handling the almost empty shell and all its needs while remembering what the person was like that is the hard part, at least for me. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
