--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 <no_reply@...> wrote: > > I found this video quite instructive about BPD, possibly explaining some > things we observe here. > > Please don't see this as an attempt to denigrate anybody, this is not my > intention. I just want to share a source of background information that > could be helpful to understand, or judge a situation. I am very aware that > there is always a graduation between what may be termed mentally sane, and > some kind of disorder, and if such a disorder is actually the case, that this > is not a reason for denigration. > > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=967Ckat7f98 >
It would be instructive for khazana to explain what he observes on FFLife as a reason for posting a video about BPD. He's not naming names, he's just trying to help everyone understand that we shouldn't denegrate people with BPD when we judge them. I guess he means we should have pity on those who must not be named for having a disability. As soon as khazana either tells me or I figure out who on FFLife has BPD, I'll be sure to judge the person kindly based on armchair diagnosis. Once I have someone neatly in a BPD box it will make my life so much easier because I'll feel good about myself that I can prejudge them with a proper measure of compassion, and won't have to bother reading or take seriously anything they have to say.