--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > For a person to express something about how another's post feels to them is one thing. I do it all the time, on here. But to make the other person responsible for such a feeling, is ultimately irresponsible. Do you see it differently?
My take is that Share felt that the best description of that interaction with Robin was "psychological rape". I don't think she feels she was victimized, any more that I might have felt when Robin played the same number on me. You think you are interacting with someone along more normal paramters, more of a mutual give and take, but Robin brings to the table a different approach. People may feel that it is an awesome approach designed to help them break through some boundries that need to be broken, or people may feel it is an unwarranted intrusion into their personal space. I think it is as simple as that. And if someone wished to describe that intrusion as "psychological rape", well then, that is their perogative, and I don't see that it is that big of a deal. But others may feel differently. I think Share reacted well within what would be considered a normal reaction. And if she was knocked off balance for a (very) short time, then that is also understandable and I would say she bounced back pretty quickly and would have been ready to move on if not for...................... My apologies, if I have taken any liberties into Share's thought processes.
