--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "feste37" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "feste37" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > My guess is that the reason people "jump" on you and say nothing > to > > > Barry is > > > not because you are a woman. It's because you give the impression > of > > > being > > > in the grip of an obsession, and he does not. > > > > He's in the grip of an obsession also, though perhaps you don't > notice > > it: he keeps agreeing that he'll ignore Judy, than gleefully pushes > her > > buttons, sometimes saying its for "her own good," and sometimes > > admitting that its his problem. > > > > Regardless, HE comes back to it at least as often as Judy does. > > You may well be right, but part of what I meant was that for Judy, > this dispute seems deadly serious business, whereas Barry seems > more light-hearted about it, as if he's playing. She is upset by > it; he is not.
Well, no, I'm not upset by it. I've been dealing with it for 10 years now over on alt.m.t. The difference between Barry and me is that I don't feel the need to put on a light-hearted act. Because that's what it is with him, an act. Everybody who's been around on alt.m.t for a while recognizes it. He's constantly being called on it. I suspect that's one reason he came over here, because on alt.m.t we've all seen through the act. You guys haven't yet. On alt.m.t, he regularly loses it, and it becomes obvious that it *is* deadly serious to him. You haven't seen much of that yet here--among other reasons, because you (plural you) haven't come down on him when he gets nasty. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
