--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, akasha_108 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > And I've never had much success > > > convincing myself that "if only external element A -Z were changed, > > > I'd be happier". > > So you would not be happier if people stopped, in your view, dissing > the "ballsy" Rory? (even when in reality its all back and forth fun).
Good question. Sure, I experience transient desires and their fulfillment, or lack thereof, and associate feelings with those experiences. That is a joy of being alive! In fact I am more fully engage in the transient events of my life than I ever was before, paradoxically. It just doesn't go all that deep. Nor would I stake my identity on the conformance on nonconformance of some percieved outside element in my life. Rather, the challenge is always to integrate myself with that preceived outside element. Hope that answers your question. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/