And what specifically in what I wrote unsettles you? 

--- In [email protected], "peterklutz" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
>
> 
> SHORT VERSION
> 
> Get a life
> 
> LONGER VERSION
> 
> Is someone's degree of intellectual convolutedness a measure of the
> distance remaning to Self-realization?
> 
> Is intellectual convolutedness a necessity for mendacious people?
> 
> Is posing allegations as questions the sign of an intellectual or a
> coward?
> 
> FULL VERSION
> 
> Yada .. waste of bandwith .. bullshit .. yada ..
> 
> 
> --- In [email protected], akasha_108 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> > --- In [email protected], Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
> > >
> > > 
> 
>  -- snip --
> 
> > > I get the "thrust" of your observations Akasha. I
> > > called it nasty because of the discomfort it would
> > > cause me if somebody listed all the women I had
> > > allegedly screwed with the implicit point of, I guess,
> > > shaming or embarassing me. I'm assuming that is the
> > > post of the poster/re-poster.
> > 
> > No thrust here, I am just exploring underlying assumptions and a
> > priori morality. I am not advocating a POV. Not speaking of you
> > directly, but of all generally, why does a list of past lovers make
> > one uncomfortable? 
> > 
> > Does one regret the affairs? 
> > 
> > Are some or all affairs "secret" -- from ones spouse, from friends? 
> > 
> > Were some partners married at the time? 
> > 
> > Was one themselves married at the time? 
> > 
> > Are some or all on the list false? 
> > 
> > Do the affairs contradict ones public statments on morality, thus
> > exposing one as hypocritical?
> > 
> > Would the list embarass or confuse ones or others children?
> > 
> > Is ones identity or value tied to what others think of oneself?
> > 
> > Is the discomfort stemming from a sense of loss -- the exposure of
> > personal, delicate, intimate moments which are private, personal and
> > loose something if exposed to the light of the world?
> > 
> > Does it matter what the intent of the poster is? Thats is, if the same
> > list were posted by people with quite different motivations, would
> > that change how one felt?
>






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