---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <turquoiseb@...> wrote :
From: salyavin808 <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, April 4, 2014 8:21 AM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Research Shows Group Meditation Can Reduce Crime Rates Nice editing. You are conveniently dishonest when it suits you. I don't get why you find communicating so difficult, as soon as you get on the losing side of an argument you start railing and twisting against irrelevant "points" that are all perfectly valid in an argument against the ME by claiming you wouldn't have thought that in the first place. It makes no sense unless you just like arguing and attempting to feel superior and/or wounded and long suffering over other peoples perceived stupidity. Sure haven't seen much behaviour like that from you.... If you're a sceptic too why bother? 1. Because the point of arguing is simply to argue, not to "win." She's going to declare "victory" anyway. 2. Because she wants to be seen as doing something to "defend" the idea of the ME while simultaneously claiming not to believe in it. She believes this exempts her from being a cult apologist, even though she consistently takes positions that place her in the position of doing just that -- apologizing for the cult. 3. Because the *real* point of any argument is to find something -- anything -- in what the other person said that she can nitpick about and then use to claim that they are STOOOPID or a LIAR or both. The way she thinks, if she can find even one thing that allows her to do that, she's "won." (And interestingly, this actually seems to actually "work" for the one or two people who still support her, because they're too dumb to notice that she's completely ignored most of the other points or questions raised by the person she's out to demean.) 4. Because she has no choice. She's an argumentation vampire, and has to suck attention almost every day in the form of an argument or she'll burst into flames like those vampires on "True Blood" who get exposed to the sun. 5. Because someone out there is still WRONG, and it's her holy dharma to get them to admit it and apologize. Bawwy appears to have done a virtually life-long study on Judy. This would be admirable except for the fact that he professes to despise her and thinks she is some cunt too stupid to live (his words, not mine) which now makes it appear to be some disease on his part. Imagine focusing and writing about and responding to someone who you think is crazy, bitter, a cultist, a cunt and otherwise the scum of the Earth for so many years. Could this be the Judy Effect? Bawwy certainly appears to be unable to let her go, to ignore her, to stay unaffected and unmoved. This is actually quite hilarious given Bawwy's claims to all those things he, er, claims about himself which is a list too long to include here.