Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <steve.sundur@...> wrote :
I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then you had best get over it, or used to it. Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the relationship(s) are always subject to "I reserve the right to bring home anyone with whom I wish to have sex". And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime. I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <awoelflebater@...> wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fleetwood_macncheese@...> wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: "Barry Wright Leiden polyamory" Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the "lampshade" is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the "dad" in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and "kept" and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.