I've been thinking lately about the time we all waste here, especially me. And about how I can turn that around. So what I came up with is a technique I haven't been practicing enough lately call Tantric inversions. That's where you take a stimulus that normally draws you back into an old, tired samskaric pattern, and instead of going there, you use the stimulus as a *reminder* to do the opposite of that samskaric pattern.
In my case, one of my obvious samskaric patterns is that I allow Judy to suck me into her endless arguments and wind up writing too much here, instead of writing the film reviews and book chapters I'm supposed to be working on this summer. So my new plan is to let Judy's seemingly endless reservoir of bile *inspire* me instead of getting under my skin. Every time she slams me here on FFL, what I'm going to try to do is *instead* of doing what she wants me to do (that is, waste my time and my life the way she's wasted hers), I'll just sit down and write another film review, or a section of the book. Somehow I think I have a long summer's writing ahead of me. :-) It'll be an interesting experiment. Judy will keep slamming me, because that is just what she does, and if I keep to this plan, the more she slams me, the more salable writing I'll produce. And that will get under her skin more than anything I could possibly say in response. Life is good. As Bhairitu can tell you, one of the reasons we like the Tantric path is that it's fun. To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/