> > --- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <no_reply@> 
wrote:
> > > > Isn't this forum open to all for public discussion? 
> > > > Yet you go out of your frame constantly. Saying:
> > > > 'Fuck off and die' claiming this to be just a nice 
> > > > american idiom. 
> > > 
> > > Contrary to what Judy told you, it really *is* a
> > > fairly innocuous American idiom. 
> > 
 > 
> Working on Wall St. in New York, in offices filled
> with well-educated stockbrokers, traders, and pro-
> grammers, I would estimate that I heard this phrase 
> a dozen times a day. That's where I developed a
> liking for it (along with "Go figure."). It conveys 
> the idea of "go away and stop wasting my time and 
> yours" better than almost any other, and with a 
> remarkable economy of language. In the offices
> I worked in (Citibank and Salomon Brothers), many
> people turned it into an acronym (FOAD) and wrote
> it out on little signs so that they could hold up
> the sign and tell someone to go away without even 
> having to pause their phone conversations to do so. :-)
> 
Having spent time in New York recently with my children; and having 
grown up on the East Coast in Philly;
I am well aware of the East Coast mentality, which is perfectly 
described in this so-called "American Idiom".
This would be especially intense in the financial district, where 
people are quite possessed with greed, fear and lust; and have little 
time for anything else; The many cocaine addicts there, also fuel 
this attitude..
I don't like this attitude and never have, which is why it was such a 
relief for me, when I first moved to Fairfield, in the 70's, and 
found farmers on tractors waving to me, "Good Morning".
New York is so overwhelming; an over-load to most people's 
sensibility of stimulation;
And really people have little time, except to do, what is right in 
from of them, running at a pace that is not natural.
The arrogant attitude is contagious there, and one seems to take it 
on, as a survival technique.
I would say though, since the shock of 9/11, the city has been 
humbled, and this attitude is not quite as intense and it used to be.
And btw, I saw many people meditating on the subway- good sign...
R.G.






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