I apparently mistook your criteria for having no respect for and/or not having lunch with people as being more than soley "being a liar". For example, you have said you won't have lunch with, and or don't respect, Rick or Jim, but for reasons, apparently, other than lying.
--- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], new.morning <no_reply@> > > > > > > As for being a liar, nothing > > > > he has said has caused me to lose money or sleep, so what of it? > > > > .. > > > I guess I wouldn't want to share a bottle of wine > > > with you either. > > > > So, no lunch with Curtis, Barry or Jim. > > > > Vaj would seem to be a difinite no, though he appears > > to be long gone. As is Cliff. > > I'm not aware that Cliff ever lied, actually. So would you have lunch with Cliff? Do you respect him? > > I am guessing I am out, "convos go nowhere" . > > Have you been lying? If so, I haven't noticed. No I don't lie. I misunderstand sometimes. But try to correct them. So would you have lunch with me? (Not an invitiation -- just a hypothetical.) > > > Geezer definately is out. > Where did he lie? Per above, lying was not the sole factor I was focusing on. But, I really don't think he is Bevan Morris and don't think that "MMY hasn't called someone that in years" is an accurate reflection of things. So would you have lunch with Geezer? Do you respect him? > > You still seem silently seething about some perceived slight of > > Rick's, I am guessing he is on the no lunch list too. > > He's definitely on the list, but not because I'm > "seething" over a "slight." Once somebody has stabbed > you in the back, you tend to wipe them off your lunch > list PDQ and simply make a mental note that they > aren't to be trusted. No "seething" required. Did he lie? If not, there do appear to be other criteria for you not having respect for people and not having lunch with them. > > Sal is definately out. > > When Sal is on the losing end of an argument that > she started, she starts using dishonest debating > tactics, but they're so transparent they hardly > constitute lying. As far as I'm aware, she's never > lied on this forum. So would you have lunch with Sal? Do you respect for her? > > > Maybe Dr. Pete, but you know he would just proposition you for > > tantra sex (for new readers -- old post referenece, jk) > > Never Dr. Pete! He's not a liar (that I know of). So he DOES want to have Tantra sex with you! > > If you would eat with Off-World and Peter Klutz -- seeing them > > as the two "sane ones" -- all I can say is "whew". > > Again, I don't recall ever seeing either of them lie. I guess you are making a distinction between not having grip on things and lying. Good point. > You left out gerbal. How about lunch with nablus? Sounds like an interesting convo. :) > > It seems odd that you interact copiuously with a group > > of people that you appear to have no respect for -- and > > would not even break bread with. Care to share the > > motivation? > > They're a subgroup of people I *do* have respect > for, enjoy interacting with, and would break bread > with any time. I'd vastly prefer it if that subgroup > would just go away until they learn to be honest, but > failing that, I'm going to call attention to it when > they lie, because such people make life more difficult > for everybody. > > > > > > > > My excuse has always been, > > > > "The French hate the Germans > > The Germans hate the Poles. > > Italians hate Yugoslavs > > South Africans hate the Dutch > > And I don't like anybody very much" > > > > KT > > > To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
