--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "jim_flanegin" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <jstein@> > wrote: <snip> > > Just as an aside, I continue to be flabbergasted > > that dishonesty and hypocrisy aren't at the top > > of folks' lists of deficiencies, and that they > > seem to tolerate them as easily as, say, the > > deficiencies of being abrasive or of nit-picking. > > I look at it as a matter of what I can do anything about. I also > noticed awhile back that sometimes what is really bugging me isn't > having as powerful an effect on others as it is on me. So I focus > on *me* for awhile, and why the particular situation is bothering > me so much. My conclusion has usually been that the situation I am > dealing with makes me feel powerless, afraid, or weak in some way.
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