Judy writes snipped: As well, you're quite mistaken to suggest that I believe what a person criticizes in others is really their own flaws. I've pointed out before that I think this notion is a thought-stopper, a way of deflecting criticism. It may be true in some cases, but it's by no means a general rule of thumb. Some people do have a tendency to project their own flaws onto others, but others do not.
Tom T: As Calvins teachers asks him what country he lives in he finally gets the right answer. DENIAL. or DE Nile. take your pick. Tom
