--- In [email protected], "lurkernomore20002000" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <no_reply@> wrote > snip > > In his view almost every romantic relationship was initiated > > by women, > > and most of the time involved them using their occult > > abilities to (at the very least) attract the man' > > s attention and get him to focus on her. > snip > > I had a relationship with a lady -her female instincts so > finely honed that this cat and mouse game was right there > out in the open, (and just beneath the surface somehow ). > She nearly caught her prey, and yet I knew it was not the > right match. How hard it was to pry myself away. It was > extrodinary to see her ply her trade. Good stuff. We > still remain distant friends.
That's a good moment, when you realize 1) that someone is trying to "wrap" you into loving them, and 2) and even better, that it really isn't a good idea for either of you to allow yourself to be wrapped. It breaks the samskaric patterns and allows new patterns to develop. Once you've tuned in to this occult "wrapping" stuff, it's really fun to watch it in action. I used to live in Malibu, in a neighborhood where a lot of the residents were movie and TV stars, and boy! did they know how to do this. Now in most cases they didn't *consciously* know how to do this, or even that they were doing it, but it was really obvious that they *were* doing it if you'd been trained to "see" energetically. Someone *not* famous but with a lot of occult phwam! would walk into a rest- aurant and all the conversation would stop, all eyes focused on her (or, occasionally, him). And it wasn't even necessarily the most attractive women who could do this; it was an energy thang, not a beauty thang. Case in point: Lesley Ann Warren. NOT a terribly attractive woman in person, but when she "pushes it out" she can stop traffic. The issue, from a spiritual perspective, is being able to "wrap" people this way and NOT doing it. >From an occult point of view, the ability to "push it out" and attract other people's attention is far less valuable than the ability to "pull it in" and use your energy for something far more interesting. The most interesting person I ever encountered in this regard was Bruce Willis. He has the ability to be as famous as he is and be in a crowd of people and "go invisible," to the point that almost no one notices him. Being able to "push it out" is kid stuff, occultly; being able to "pull it in" this way is far more difficult.
